I am a giving person – period.  I went to therapy 20 years ago and while this was addressed, it was something that, Annalisa said to me back then that really stuck.  She told me I did too much for people and that I was so out of whack, I should keep score.  “You do something for them…and they do something for you. You  do something for them and if they do not do something for you, you don’t do anything else for them.”  I actually needed that basic instruction in BALANCE.

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